Dating An Inmate: It’s Not For Everyone
He tells her to leave when the D.A. offers fifteen years as the plea bargain. They're on a visit, at Riker's Island. You can’t take this, he tells her. It’ll hurt more when you leave later.
Prison Love and Sex
Tip #4: The Rules of Prison Sex
We all are human. Cops and inmates alike. The authorities know we have needs. There are crazy rules, like no drinking and smoking. There are even rules for prison sex. Then there are even crazier, pettier rules, like no swapping goods, [...]
Murph the Surf and Other Great Stories
Here are two more unforgettable prison characters from the early days of my imprisonment. Murph the Surf. And Bobby B. To maintain his dignity and privacy if he still lives, I will call him Bobby B., the masculine partner of [...]
Is My Married Prison Lover “Gay For The Stay?”
Was he gay for the stay? We met at the intake unit here in the prison, and he happened to be my neighbor’s bunkie. There was something about his energy that pulled me towards him. We talked everyday and it [...]
I Was Repeatedly Raped In Prison
The story of my life in prison started in November of 2010. I came to prison for the first time in my entire life. When I first got to prison I was scared to death that I would never make [...]
A BDSM Slave in Prison Looks Back
It is strange to look back on your life and try to understand how a devout Christian child could voluntarily become a slave to a sadistic BDSM Master (acronym for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadomasochism and Masochism.) My parents [...]
Sex in Prisons: Mama Herc and Fighting the Ninja
Mama Herc was a genuine prison legend, infamous beyond his razor wire boundaries. When I was in the county jail for a couple of years, fighting my case through the courts, recidivists would share chain gang horror stories about what would [...]
Prison Chain-Gang Mating Rituals
Courtesy of Charles Norman Big Willie Taylor came to my cell one evening after supper with a question. I knew it was a question because he never came to my cell unless he had a question that stumped [...]
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A Porn Star’s Tips for Dating a Prisoner
The internet is awash with anecdotes (many of them horror stories) of the pitfalls and ups and downs of being in an MWI (Met While Incarcerated) relationship. Having read through poorly-written, sometimes incoherent and often scatterbrained accounts of others’ MWI [...]
Borrow a Cup of Coffee and You Could Become Someone’s Sex Slave
Everyone in prison is ready to help in some way or another, but the word “help” has a very fluid definition. It can mean to do something to assist, but also to extort or rape or kill. I learned it’s better to be as independent as possible in here.
My First Girlfriend in Prison
The door opens, and when she walks in, my heart loses count, harmony broken. She is the most beautiful thing I've ever seen, not just in years but ever (and I have seen the Grand Canyon, the tropical rainforests in Mexico, the green flash that crosses the ocean at sunset, the Aurora in the Northern Sky...).
Love in Prison: 12 Tips To Dating A Prisoner
So you’re looking for love? You’re one of those who has yet to find that person to walk your journey with. You’ve decided to widen your options to include those who are currently incarcerated. You’ve listed all of the pros and [...]
Gay for the Stay
Believe me, when you are in prison, just always remember: hypocrite is everyone’s new name. In the outside world, allegedly 10% of the population has some type of homosexual leanings. In the prison population, that percentage goes up to 50%. However, [...]
I’m Getting Married To A Prisoner
Never in a million years would I have ever guessed I would end up engaged to a man in prison. I want to stop any and all negative comments right now and say: No, I am not getting married to a [...]
When Prisoners Become Sex Slaves
The first time I saw the man everyone called “Helluva,” I found myself wondering, what does that have to do with the price of tea in China? Much later after observing, meeting, and coming to know this person for who [...]
Sexhibition: A Primer on Sex In Prison
Sex in prison has never been a private affair, but it seems to be even less so of late. Men who publicly masturbate in prison to add spice to their fantasies used to be a rarity. Twenty-four years later, that is [...]